Category Archives: Deep Thoughts

A pep talk on just doing the thing already

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Shit has been getting really real.

I don’t know how you’ve been lately, but I know I’ve been feeling pretty stagnant for the past few months. Ever since the election.

While I truly believe that the intense political climate has a deeper purpose to wake us up and get us to care and right the wrongs going on in the world, I still plummet into a fear spin of despair at least once a day. It just plain hurts my heart to see the greater good of the whole being sold away to the highest bidder. Everyday I want to scream THIS IS NOT OKAY!

And while screaming from my couch while scrolling Facebook feels pretty cathartic, it doesn’t do much beyond that. And so, here is the pep talk…

IT’S TIME TO DO THE THING.

What does that mean?

On the external side, this might look like getting involved in marches, protests, calling representatives, signing petitions, volunteering etc etc etc.

But equally as important, is the internal work that is needed from each of us. The external world is a reflection of our inner state. SO, it’s time for each of us to ask ourselves… am I truly creating my world to reflect what I REALLY want in life? Am I fulfilling my purpose on this planet or am I shying away because I’m afraid of rejection or failure?

Well, love,

IT’S TIME TO DO THE THING.

What is the *the thing* for you? What is in your heart that you have been putting off?

Speaking your truth? Letting go of the past? Forgiving?

Is it a creative project or hobby? Is it a shift in your business?

LET. IT. OUT.

Stop hiding from what your soul wants to express. Because, the more we’ve internally freed ourselves, the more that is reflected in our external world. That means that we won’t need to create a world where we feel powerless and imprisoned and continue to give our power away to external authority figures.

I support you to do whatever this thing is that you’ve been holding onto. I’m doing my own thing right along with you (more on that later!).

If you’d like a safe space to proclaim what it is you’re going to take action on and get some encouragement, comment below or write to me here! I am all ears. Non-judgemental ears.

And, if there is any way I can be of service to your thing, please be in touch. I work with people in several ways AND I will be donating 10% from all sales to the ACLU, Planned Parenthood or another organization of your choice that is helping to bring more love and support into the world right now:

1. Branding, graphic/web design and development. Check out my portfolio. I build out sites on the WordPress platform and specialize in working with heart-centered online business owners to set up sites that both feel authentic and convert. Everything from main websites to sales funnels to product launches to telesummits to…!!! Let’s chat if you have a project in mind. I have some space for large projects or small hourly work right now.

2. Consulting/Strategy sessions. If you would like support in getting started or mapping out your branding, digital product, online course, website, book a session here. If you’re wondering if a strategy session is right for you, respond to this email and let’s figure that out.

3. Be Drawsome the 30 day drawing course. This happens online so you can work through it from the comfort of your own home. This course is 30 days of drawing prompts that help you tap into your inner most feels and use that as fuel for your creativity. You don’t need any drawing or art background/experience to succeed in this experience. It’s all intuition based. You will learn to draw mandalas and to listen to your inner voice. It’s only $60 to play. As Brene Brown says “There is no such thing as ‘creative people’ – there are people who use their creativity and those who don’t and that does not go without penalty. Unused creativity is not benign, it’s dangerous, it metastasizes, it turns into grief and judgement and rage and poison.” Sign up here.

4. My etsy store. If you’d like some original art to fill your life with more high vibes, check out my watercolor paintings here. I also do commissions if you have something specific in mind. I’d love to create something special for you, your business or your loved one! Get in touch if you have an idea or need.

Much love and peace to you!

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Mandalas and zines and doing stuff just for the FUN of it

For the past few months, I’ve been on a very serious mission to add more fun to my life.

I mean, I’m always on this mission but I’ve been taking it more seriously lately.

For me, this has involved doing things that I’ve thought about doing for a long time but just never got around to it.

Some of these activities were: camping, hiking in an old growth forest, apple picking, going to Storm King, fall foliage oogling and making things.

I love making things.

Designing, knitting, silkscreening, origami, cooking, drawing, jewelry…

There’s something special that happens when you witness your body having a direct affect on the object in front of you. Taking raw materials and utilizing your creative force to make a new thing out of it.

Something ONLY YOU can make!

One of the things I’ve thought about doing for a long time is making a zine. Like thought about since the 90s.

Zines are self-publishing at it’s finest.

And after endless requests to turn my mandalas into a coloring book, I’ve obliged!

I present to you…

This Book of Mandalas is for Coloring.

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The outside.

 

A real live, you can hold it in your hands, coloring book!

Comprised of 14 mandalas, made of black outlines, ready for COLOR to be unleashed within them, or outside them, there are no rules here.

This little booklet is imperfect and quirky and awkward and I adore it.

(You can buy one for $10 here. There are only 13 available. And that includes shipping.)

About the content: These mandalas are intuitive downloads that provide healing and clearing via encoded sacred geometric shapes when you look at them. When you color them, you are personalizing the experience to what you need to see and having your own intuitive download. It’s also very meditative, creative flow inducing and you know… fun!

 

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The inside.

 

So, the moral of this story:

Have more fun, do stuff you’ve always wanted to do and
for gosh sakes, let your inner creative anima out to prowl around
(especially the imperfect and quirky and awkward parts).

 

(PS – Creativity isn’t just for artists – we are ALL innately creative. Everything we do and say and are is creativity!)

 

Oh and buy the zine if you’d like to color!

I’ve also put together a more refined coloring book which will be available at the end of November – you can order that here. It’s $25 including shipping. And the first 20 people who order get a BONUS surprise! Might I add these would make a great holiday gift! 😉

 

2 steps forward, 1 step back

Lessons from drawing:

Dance monkey dance.

Life is in a constant dance of 2 steps forward and 1 step back. (Those steps are not always the same size, mind you.)

So just know that when you move forward, a little backstepping is natural. And maybe even necessary to give us the push we need to keep going.

Sometimes the moving needs to be slow and sometimes quick.

Sometimes we make them from a place of strength and power. And sometimes it feels like we’re being dragged, barely hanging on.

Whatever your steps are looking like right now, is ok. You got this, whether it feels like it or not. ♥

Explore the world of transformation through drawing with the Be Drawsome! Home Study! Go here to find out more and sign up!

Are you listening to the signs??

Perspective is a funny thing.

I’m writing this from my bed. I threw out my back this morning.

I’m vacillating between fits of tears that make me contemplate my existence and utter boredom.

I’m suddenly feeling very productive and would love to sit at my laptop and do all the work.

That’s definitely not physically possible at the moment.

So instead I’m typing this in a note on my phone.

(Side note: It’s surprisingly hard to dictate an entire blog post to Siri. The things you try to do when the things you can do are severely limited…)

Anyway, yesterday was a whole other story…

Yesterday all I wanted to do was lay around and relax and draw.

I forced myself to work instead.
At the end I felt accomplished but stressed out and seriously drained.

And today I’m on forced rest, body’s orders.

All I can think about right now is… what would have happened if I had heeded the message I got yesterday? Would I be laid up today?

Maybe, maybe not.

But what I know for sure is that I definitely *could* have been not so hard on myself yesterday.

I could have honored what I really wanted to do.

All that push to get shit done seems quite unnecessary right about now.

I could have paid attention to the signs and taken a breather, been kind to myself. Trusted my impulses.

Despite what conventional society would have us believe,
our bodies know best. And so does our intuition.

Life moves in cycles and not all of them can be/should be/need to be go go go.

I know, it’s so hard to break that way of thinking especially when we’re attached to social media all day seeing what everyone else is doing.

But it’s the damn truth.

We all have permission to take our time and listen to the signs. And to draw whenever we want. (or whatever your version of drawing is) 

Thanks for the lesson, back! 

And in honor of this revelation, I’m offering a special SAD BACK bonus with the new home study version of Be Drawsome!

So for the next 24 hours (until June 21st at 4pm est), you get a FREE 30 min private session with me where we’ll dig in to one of your drawings and your drawing process and see what wisdom it has to share with you! And lemme tell you, clients have had some EPIC shifts in their non-drawing lives because of this experience.

It’s super fun to discover what it all means :) and it’s even MORE fun to see that pesky pattern you’ve been grappling with shift. For good.

Yes! Drawing can really do that! It’s not just frivolous fun, it’s useful fun!!

Check it out and sign-up here!

Here’s what one person had to say about this process:

I was having one of those days when I needed to get a lot done for my business and I felt SO BLOCKED. Usually I drink more coffee or waste time on Facebook, but I decided to jump on one of Mara’s Drawsome exercises and it totally changed my whole day. I watched my mandala come alive on paper and I realized that I had a big unresolved resistance to finishing projects. As I put the finishing touches on my art piece I felt really calm and reenergized. It stirred up a lot of creative juice and I had a blast laughing with Mara. I was able to finish my newsletter and even came up with ideas for my next launch. I’ll be doing this again for sure!

– Lily Starling, FillYourHolisticPractice.com

How well do you know yourself?

Are your dots connected?

Are you and you best friends?

Or… do you feel at odds sometimes?

Do you get down on yourself because what seems to work for other people doesn’t work for you?

You read all kinds of blogs. Take tons of courses. Follow the instructions to the detail.

But, it just doesn’t seem to work for you…

Here’s a secret: everyone is a little different. And what works for some people, doesn’t work for others.

I know, it’s crazy, right?!!

So, how well do you know yourself?

It was recently affirmed for me that the best way FOR ME to make shit happen in my life is to not try! To just relax and do other stuff that makes me feel good. This is pretty much the OPPOSITE of what Western culture tell us we should do. And is also EXTREMELY HARD for me to do. It brings up a lot of guilt and challenges my core belief that says ‘in order to get something you want, you have to TRY REALLY HARD!!!’

But, the thing is… it works.

I learned that from checking out my Human Design chart.

There are many facets to each of us and the better we understand ourselves, the easier it becomes to do the things that help us get shit done and bring us the successes we want.

Plus, the better you’ll feel.

I’m kind of a personality test, birthdate based chart thingy junkie.

I’ve learned so much about myself from these things!

There’s Human Design. If you’re curious what your Human Design has to say, go here or here.

There’s astrology. You can get your chart here. There’s so much more to astrology than your sun sign! Molly Hall has a lot of great articles here.

Then there’s Strengths Finder.

And The Fascination Advantage Test.

Enneagrams. (watch out, this one made me cry!)

Archetypes.

And let’s not forget good ole Myer’s Briggs!

Of course, there are many many more than these. And even within these, you’ll find certain aspects are more prominent than others. For instance, I am completely moon centric and I find that following the moon phases really helps me understand my moods and what’s going on in my life.

The way all these different parts of you come together is what makes up your WEIRD!!

The point is… PLAY WITH IT! Give yourself some time to learn more about you. You just might find the keys to your next career move or an explanation to why you always love to lay in the grass and stare up at the sky.

How do you feel about personality tests and birthdate based charts??

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See that drawing up there? It’s an original! By me.

It’s actually the very first piece I’ve ever put up for sale.

Squeeeeeeeaaaaaalllll!!!

You can buy it, here! It’s 9×12 in pen on heavy bright white paper. Shipping is included.

And that yellow, it’s neon 😉

It might just help you remember there’s always more dots within you that can be connected. <3

My existential crisis and remembering who I really am

This week has been ROUGH over here at Mara Belzer HQ.

If only there were some place we could order a dropper full of confidence and clarity! Take 4 drops 3x a day and you’d be set 😉

Mine would probably be made from the energetic vibration of the tears my three year old self shed five lifetimes ago when that dog bit my foot and I ended up with a marking on my first chakra.

Alas, being an entrepreneur is super painful sometimes and blocks can be tricky. And the only thing you can really do is just wade through the thoughts and feelings while attempting to keep the collateral damage to a minimum.

For me that means calling on my arsenal of friends and coaches and handholding otters so I don’t float out to sea.

AND completely getting away from my business and doing fun stuff until I am *actually* having fun.

Yesterday, between fits of hysterical crying, I went to my storage unit to look for some watercolor paper. I’ve been nomadic for the past two years so looking for stuff in there is like sorting through a time capsule.

I found my old sketchbooks from art school. They reminded me that I’ve had a propensity towards the weird since… forever.

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Here's a drawing I did of a slug watching tv.
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Here's my interpretation of a house cat back from when I was really into house music. Over on the left you can see evidence of my obsession with label makers.
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I also found the snakes which you can read all about in my post about the snakes.

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Snakes!
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This trip down memory lane helped me see that my life is much bigger than any existential crisis.

Life flows in waves and sometimes when you’re at the bottom of the wave, it’s hard to remember that pretty soon you’ll be back on top of the world, having a grand ole time, and feeling stronger for that dip.

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Here's my three year old self from this lifetime enjoying the heck out of toothless smiles and nature.
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Ok, so… the next time you find yourself in an entrepreneurial rut, you have permission to take a break and do something that reminds you of who you really are.

Because you are SO MUCH MORE than the number of clients you have or amount of dollars in your bank account or number of likes on Facebook.  <– click to tweet that!

You are amazing with or without.

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Are you rockin’ your shit?! like really really?!

OK, so I have a confession…

I LOVE all this Harlem Shake madness!!

Here’s one of my faves:

One person rocking their own little dance while a crowd could care less… baseline drops and ALL HELL BREAKS LOOSE!!!

Everyone getting down in general CRAZINESS!!

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YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!

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I see it as representation of how our inner world should look.

When you come up with something you want to do in your life, something that would require you to muster up all your courage to JUST GO FOR IT… are you there for you?

Like really really there?

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Do you sit in the audience, ignoring this part of you that wants to break out and BE THEIR WEIRD SELF?

OR…

Do you SUPPORT YOURSELF with every cell in your body to just ROCK THAT SHIZZ?! Get dressed up in all your various facets of awesomeness and lose your shit in the best way possible?! YOUR GLASS CEILING SHATTERED INTO A MILLION LITTLE BITS !!!!!

OR…

Are you looking at that piece of yourself that wants to break out with lots of eye rolling and disgust – getting super annoyed with their shenanigans?

Well, it’s time to support yourself.

Because if you want people to rally around you in the outside world… if you have a thing you wanna make happen… you gotta get down with you, first.

You have the world’s blessing: Accept yourself. Support yourself. ROCK THE EFF OUT WITH YOURSELF!!!

gimmespace!

(ps – And while you’re at it, rock the eff out with other people too. It’s quite contagious!)


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Choose to look for the proof that you’re awesome!

The other day I wrote this as an experiment in attracting clients:

Dear Universe & Angels:

I am so ready to serve and help. I am handing over the task of bringing me the clients who:

  • have issues that I can help them with
  • value me enough to pay for what I do
  • get the benefit of the process, want to learn about themselves, find a solution and have fun with it

<3 thank you!
Mara

After writing it, I felt completely liberated! I didn’t realize how much the pressure I had been putting on myself to get client attraction right. It felt euphoric to take myself out of the equation and just TRUST that someone else had it covered. A little cosmic delegation, if you will!

I looked at it, read it out loud… really FELT it!

And it felt GREAT!

And then… after about 24 hours… it lost it’s magic.

And I went spiraling downward… into DOUBTVILLE.

Doubtville looked like this:

  • What if the Universe & Angels don’t want to help me?
  • What if I can’t help people?
  • What if people don’t find value in working with me?
  • What if they don’t get the benefit of the process?

First of all, none of these thoughts are actually true…

  • The Universe & Angels are not malicious and they don’t choose favorites! They’ll help anyone and everyone.
  • I can help people. I help them everyday.
  • People invest in my services all the time, so they obviously see the value!
  • My process gets results. People want results. Therefore, people see benefit in the process.

So why the doubting then?

When I dug a little deeper, I came up with…

A desire to fail.

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Why on earth would I WANT to prove I can fail?

Logically speaking, that’s so effing ridiculous!

BECAUSE, that’s the tricky stuff that our mental monkeys do. They twist everything around and lead us in crazy pursuits to prove right these crappy things we agreed to believe about ourselves.

We all have wacky/crappy stuff we started believing at some point in the past.

As true as these beliefs might feel, they AREN’T!

If you’re saying, BUT MARA, I HAVE PROOF!

You sure do. You can engineer some proof to support any idea about yourself you come up with. That doesn’t make it true.

Whatever you choose to believe about yourself is what’s gonna show up on your plate. You want to believe that you’re lame or not worth it or broke or confused or the world hates you and that all dogs pee on your bike and crazy homeless men follow you around, you will continue to prove yourself right OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

You have a choice: You can walk around looking for proof that you suck and the world hates you OR you can start looking for proof that confirms just how effing awesome you are.

Because you are really damn awesome.  <– Click to tweet!  You’re pure love, baby!

gimmespace!

(ps – this is what getting out of your own way means!)

So… tell me, where are you letting the monkeys have their way with you?! What are you going to do to take back control and choose awesome?!


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16 things to try when you aren’t getting clients

I’m not gonna sugar coat this,
IT BLOWS when the clients are nowhere to be found!

You’re worried, you’re stressed and and sadly, the easiest thing to do – getting frustrated and angry and sad – doesn’t really seem to do the trick when it comes to moving things forward.

Nope, it’s time to do some troubleshooting to figure out what the hay might be going on.

Here’s 16 things to try when business is slow and all you wanna do is help some folks and pay the bills:

1. Give up! Ok, so you don’t have to GIVE UP, give up. Just give up the struggle.

Let yourself off the hook. Get out from under all that pressure you’ve been putting on yourself to SUCCEED at the numbers game. Close the laptop, take off the headset and go do something that has NOTHING to do with work. Woo alert! When you give up, you’re getting out of your way and giving the Universe/God/Goddess (or whatever you believe in!) a chance to work some magic in your favor. Even if you don’t believe in this, just give it a chance, you might be surprised at the results!

2. Are you having FUN?! No one says to themself, ‘gee, I’d sure love to find a coach who’s miserable and hating life!’ People want to hire people who are happy and having a good time. Work fun into your daily routine.

3. Are you feeling desperate? Get yourself to a place of feeling FULL and SATISFIED. Do whatever it takes. Even if you only have three days until a bill is due, a new client could come into your life in a matter of seconds or minutes. You just never know.

4. Change your measurement of success. If your success is based on the numbers game (number of clients you’ve got or dollars in your bank account), you’re likely feeling pretty crappy about yourself when those numbers are low. The uber competitive, capitalistic, age of the individual has left us tying our worth to numbers. It doesn’t have to be that way. You get to make up your own definition of success and tell yourself whatever story you want about what it means.

5. Are you being consistent with your marketing? Consistency is so so important. People encounter so much every day, they aren’t likely to remember you unless you’re reminding them frequently that you exist and what you can do for them.

Creating content also reminds YOU what you’re all about and what you can do for people. And keeps you creative, fired up and evolving.

6. Does your business exist in your head? Sometimes, it might *feel* like you’re doing a lot of work for your biz because it’s always on your mind, BUT, if that’s the only place it is, nobody knows about it! If you’re always contemplating your ideas, or running them by people for feedback, but never taking action to make them real, it only exists in your head.

Get those ideas OUT of your head!

7. Are you embarrassed to send people to your website or sales page? Do you hate the name of your program so much you never want to say it? Do you have a hard time talking about what you do? This WILL create a huge block in the flow of your biz! If you hate what you have out there or clam up whenever someone asks what you do, and secretly don’t want anyone to see it or ask about it, then they won’t. It’s that simple.

Love all the pieces of your biz and yell about it from rooftops! People get excited when you’re excited!  <– click to tweet it!

If you can’t do this, you need to take a look at whether you’re *actually* into what you’re doing.

8. Do people understand the value of what you’re offering? Do they get what you can do for them and what’s in it for them? If people don’t get how what you can do for them will make their lives more awesome, they aren’t going to invest in it.

9. Are you barking up the wrong tree? People buy what they WANT, but not necessarily what they NEED. And, they have to be ready for it. If someone says no or not now, move along and find people who are ready for what you can do for them. Get off the crusade of trying to convince people they need it. They very well might but you can’t force them into it.

10. Are you being the person your clients need to be in order to by your thing? Our clients mirror us. So, if people aren’t buying, for instance, take a look at your headspace and actions to see if you’re exhibiting this same behavior.

Are you holding back in some way and not wanting to confront a personal demon? Are you sitting on decisions or telling yourself you can’t afford something? Are you worrying that hiring someone won’t help you with what you need?

All of these thought patterns will attract other people with the same ones. Take the risk or leap you want your potential clients to make.

11. Are you hiding? Are you saying what you want and how you want to say it? Do you have pictures of yourself on your site? People buy when they feel connected. They want to see your face and hear your personal story.

If you said ‘yes, Mara, I am’ to this one. Ask yourself again – AM I REALLY BEING MY WEIRD SELF?!! Take a risk, I promise people will NATURALLY be drawn to you when you’re being your self, no matter how WHACKY that is!

12. Is the language you’re using approachable and understandable? Write how you speak and use words and phrases your clients ACTUALLY use to describe their woes. People will be all – YES! THAT’S SO ME!! Stay away from generic jargon that everyone uses but can mean different things to different people. Step into your power… become your authentic self… you get the idea :) Get original and honest with your copy!

13. Is there a tricky mindset at play? Will having more money or more clients be in direct conflict with a hidden belief you’re hardboring? Here’s two I’ve uncovered in the past year:

  • Having more money would mean I would have to make decisions about certain things in my life. Decisions I didn’t want to have to make. So, keeping myself broke was keeping me from having to make those decisions! Convenient, right?!
  • Having more clients would mean being responsible for people and potentially letting them down.

Ask yourself: Who would I have to be to make money? What would having money mean?

14. Work on your money story! There’s so much packed into this one. We all have a past with money that dates back way farther than we can remember. Do some work to help you dig that up and get to know what’s going on there.

If you’re broke and always telling yourself you can’t afford things, you will continue down that path unless you change something. Try making a tiny shift in how you look at money. ie – Pay your bills with gratitude and appreciation by making a list of all the things this service enabled you to do. Or, look at not buying something as a choice rather than because you can’t afford it. It’s likely that you could sacrifice your rent to pay for something you wanted but you would rather have a home than a $500 pair of boots. That’s a choice! Feel empowered by your priorities instead of controlled by them.

15. Get rid of something! I’m sure you’ve heard the saying ‘nature abhors a vacuum’ – well, that shit is damn true! Try it out and watch what happens. It doesn’t really matter what it is… actual stuff, using a gift certificate you’ve been saving, cleaning out the fridge. Just do something and get it off your to do list. This creates flow where things are blocked.

Just be aware of what’s coming your way. Sometimes we’ll get sent something we don’t want as a test to see how committed we are to our true goals. Stay strong and hold out for the thing you really want!

16. Do you really want to be doing this? Are you really actually excited about it?! Get prepared for this one because the answer might be NO. And that’s OK.

What would you rather be doing instead? Is it a different offer or whole other business altogether? Be honest with yourself. Even if you don’t know how to make the switch right now, you will figure it out. You totally deserve to be doing something you love and getting to be YOUR WEIRD SELF. Believe it.

Tell me, which one(s) resonated the most with you? Do you have any specific things you like to do when you’re feeling all blocked up in the client area?

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Is your business built on SHOULD?

For the past 3 days, I’ve been trying to finish this blog post.

Not THIS blog post, but a different blog post. Yesterday, while in major procrastination mode, I went perusing through my collection of half written blog post drafts and I discovered that I have tried to write that post on several different occasions from different angles.

Wow.

In addition to the time I spent writing different versions of the post, there’s the all the time I spent thinking about the post. It sounded something like this…

“You should write that blog post.”

“You need to finish that blog post.”

“Why aren’t you writing that blog post?”

“WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU, YOU NEVER DO WHAT YOU SHOULD BE DOING!!!”

Again, wow.

If I have to berate myself into misery to get the thing written, it’s not going to come out in an open and expansive way. And people don’t connect with things that don’t come out in an open and expansive – they just aren’t all that enjoyable for anyone.

I mean, do you march along thinking to yourself…

“I’m dying to pay to work with someone who is all tied up in knots, creating out of misery,.”

“I’m looking for that person who is having a horrible, depressing, not fun time in their biz. I bet they can help me!”

“I want the person who is hiding their true self from the world and offering something they aren’t all that into.”

I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say ABSOLUTELY NOT! You want to hire people who are excited and happy and inspired, right?!! Well, your clients do, too.

There’s no reason to be unhappy in your business.

Sure, some things are less fun than others. And yes, sometimes, you have to do the unhappy to even know that you aren’t into it.

And of course, even the things you *want* to do will make you uncomfortable for certain reasons like getting outside your comfort zone and pushing past blocks.

But, it’s important to establish the difference between the *shoulds* – the stuff you’re forcing yourself to do because you think you have to – and the *wants*…

The stuff you REALLY REALLY LOVE.

The stuff that just flows out of you and makes you all warm and fuzzy and giggly and smiley.

The stuff that makes the world feel like this magical place where everything makes sense.

So, what’s up? Is your biz built on the *shoulds* or the *wants*???

Do you want to gouge your eyes out every time you think about that lead you need to follow up on or that shopping cart you were going to set up or that program you haven’t gotten around to launching?

Sheesh! Give yourself  break.

You are totally allowed to trade in the *shoulds* for the fun stuff! <– tweet this!

gimmespace!

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